Find Meaning in Life: 5 Simple Ways
Instead of asking yourself why you are here and what exactly it is you should be doing, let us begin to make your experiences the answer to your questions and put some meaning and oomph back in your life, where they belong.
1. Learn the Lesson on Happiness
Yes, I know, you’ve heard it before: happiness is a choice. Yes, it is, and luckily it can be practiced by anyone because the truth is you can actually override what you were originally taught, which is to play along with the rest of the world and become upset or unhappy because things are not perfect.
Alright, I’m not saying always have a deluded smile on your face (people will think you’re crazy) but instead stay calm and stay happy, whilst dealing with situations that need your attention.
2. Follow Your Gifts and Talents
Discovering your gifts and talents will give meaning to your life and can lead to finding your purpose. Here are a few questions that will help you discover what underlying gifts and talents you have:
- What comes naturally to you?
- When do you feel the best?
- What are you doing or experiencing then?
- In what way do you love to help other people?
3. Make Great Connections
Spend time with the people that add to your life and lift you up. This could be anyone from friends to work colleagues.
Spend less time with people that drain your energy or constantly give negative vibes. Jim Rohm puts it this way,
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
Begin to notice how you feel around others. (Hint: you should feel good.)
4. Help Others
Helping other people helps you feel good, definitely makes you feel worthy, and gives you some sense of purpose. Giving to others in time, money or helping them out in any way you can is a sure way to give yourself meaning in life.
So, the question is this: Do you know anyone you can help this week?
5. Do Something You’ve Always Wanted To Do
What’s that thing you always think about doing someday? Well, guess what? Your time has come, my friend, because you’re going to do it.
Step 1. Identify your ‘thing’.
Step 2. Go do it.
If this is an impossible two-step process for you right now, then start working towards, saving, learning or doing whatever it will take to make it happen. But make your first step!